No matter what anyone thinks of you, you are who you are. Boys don't have to tell girls there not skinny enough and girls don't have to tell boys your not tough enough. God has the perfect soulmate for us so don't try to make yourself any prettier or handsomer than you are because there is no one more beautiful than who God already made you. :)
This essay is exceptional except for the fact that you gaze off in the essay. First you start of talking about your childhood. Then you go a completely different place. Other than that its great.
Well if all you need is a website to go to, then here is a great source. http://www.aacc.nche.edu/Resources/aaccprograms/diversity/brownvboard/Pages/supremecourt.aspx