Answer:
A: It can be difficult to figure out who you really are.
Explanation:
They are both trying to find out who they are in life, but they can't. Because there's so many things getting in the way of finding out who they are, and there's that same mini-plot in each story.
C) quatrain
I'm pretty sure this is right. Hope I helped :)
Meaning it was to be founded as soon as possible, seeming as urgent means important/ a needing to be done fast.
The answer is has good judgement??