Just tell them because if you keep trying to figure a way to tell them what you need to tell them then you will probably get nervous and don't tell them for a while. Just be straight forward i guess.
I don’t know what please specify?
Answer:
you are playing defense since the setter sets the ball up to be attacked
Explanation:
YES!
i'm sorry you feel that way i know it can be very toxic and yes i totally agree on with the drama