Self reliance is the ability to depend on yourself to get things done and to meet your own needs. An example of self reliance is growing your own food. The capacity to rely on one's own capabilities, and to manage one's own affairs; independence not to be dependent. Reliance on one's own judgment, abilities, etc.
He was mainly focused on himself and wasn’t caring for any others.
From what I've found, the last command to Ariel was,"<span>to make sure the trip home is made on “calm seas” with “auspicious gales”" Let me know if this helped.
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