Being oneself is more important than pleasing others.
Explanation:
The passage states that "May Pole getting the new clothes all dirty and sweaty and trying to act like a fairy or a flower or whatever you’re supposed to be when you should be trying to be yourself", Mary is being mary, she's being herself and, she didn't care about the other people judging her...i think lol.
The love must be inter-assured and their souls must be like one. It cannot just be a love of the body but of the mind as well.
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