It depends what type of abuse you're talking about. If it is parental abuse, then it could be caused by anger issues, or if your child isn't listening, the parent would normally try hitting their child, or saying things that could scar their child.
and normally, if a child is abused, there is a possibility of them becoming an abuser as well. If that isn't the case, they'll most likely grow up with PTSD and is afraid of relationships, and afraid of being hit.
Nursing homes I think I’m not sure tho :)
Possibly the answer could be: reliant on, or addicted to
You only have the questions.... there’s no video or picture to look from.