First of all 13 year old driving second of all really
I believe the answer is: Perceptual set
Perceptual set is human tendency to focus on a certain data that we feel as 'important' and completely ignore the other existing data beside that.
In acquiring new information, perceptual set will make us have an extreme bias in analyzing the new information. We will only seek the data that confirm our pre-existing belief while ignoring other data that might challenge our view. (such as the believer of UFO that choose to ignore all contradicting evidence)
The social learning theory. According to it, Jimmy is faced with a situation of two of his closest relatives fighting, but he will necessarily identify with his father, based on their gender. When Jimmy grows up, it is very likely that he will imitate his father, as his role model. Jimmy sees that a man is aggressive, whereas a woman is submissive. That is how he will understand the world. That is how he will participate in that world when he comes of age.
