Answer:
To support a very general thesis about the text
You might call your continual problems a curse because someone else is continuing to be blessed.
If you cant handle someone when they are at their darkest hardest point, then you don't deserve them at their highest and best point.
Either on and off campus experience or living at home, in a dorm, and in apartment.
You can chose on what you think is the best.
Maybe someone else can help us both