C he is recognizeing they don't wanna do that
What causes narcissism?
Although the cause of narcissistic personality disorder isn't known, some researchers think that in biologically vulnerable children, parenting styles that are overprotective or neglectful may have an impact. Genetics and neurobiology also may play a role in development of narcissistic personality disorder.
A passive-aggressive comment can insulting or the person may be wanting to manipulate another. This can also frustrate someone because they would like to get to the point of the problem, while a passive-aggressive person would not. I ultimately feel as if it’s different for every person. In general passive aggressive people like to manipulate and never give direct requests.