That's because most of the times our ideals are not really our own. They are based upon what we have seen working out for other people and in the quest of being as good as them, we try to imbibe those ideas. I am not saying we must not observe and learn. But we must understand that this life of ours is in all ways unique. We have our own history, our own situations and priorities and our own destinations. Our idea of ideal should be based around that.
