I believe there is more than one "self" you present to the world also depending on the group of people you are with. In the hate you give the main character (Starr) struggles to find a common ground with the people that live in her neighborhood and those she goes to school with, is is there you find how hard she finds her place in the world.
Romeo claiming that he flew on "loves wings" allowing him to leap over the orchard walls. Also creates a bold remark that love will protect him from Juliet's kinsmen because "love, a man can do anything."
