The central idea of the poem is how her mother died and took her courage with her, something her child does not have. The child states how since she is dead she took it with her to her grave which is why they said she does not need it anymore. The mother left behind a golden brooch that she wore since it would remind her child of her even when she is gone. But the child wants her courage, not her brooch.
So okay ahahahaha babahahaha
They may have different ideals and different ideas of what good morals are. There are also different rules.
C.lesser to greater is answer
