The hardest part of being a parent is having a first child as it leads to many difficulties and significant adjustments in your life. Having a first child is the first experience of having much responsibility, the child is helpless and cannot really do anything to help out in the family. Since you have never gone through this before, it is going to be hard trying to cope with your child or deal with him/her. It is kind of like signing your rights away, you don have enough time to much anymore due to your child, your time with friends, family, or having fun decrease. You lose sleep to check if you´re child is okay, life will be so stressful than before when having your first child.