Answer:
his desire for revenge on both families ( first choice)
What in the show was shown completely differently, than wubrazalas after quoting novels? Quo vadis 2001
When you avoid conflict, you are
also avoiding the chance to understand the reason behind why the conflict
happened. It will not help you grow as a person but it will make you become a
coward by escaping the reality. The more you avoid conflict, the more you are
trying to alienate yourself from the person/people that surround you. It will
give them the impression that you do not care at all. So, even if how painful
the conflict is/was or will be, you have to face it no matter what.