Androgynous
~Being both male and female
~Hermaphroditic
~Having both masculine and feminine traits
~Having an ambiguous sexual identity
Muscle memory, i dont know the second one
Answer:
You choose most parts of your identity for yourself. Society, and others influence your identity in ways that aren't even explained. Some things, like your gender assigned at birth are by chance. All of these, however, all are part of your identity and help you decide. For example, trends from others can help influence your identity. Also, society has specific standards, and breaking out of those standards and norms can help influence your identity
Disclaimer this may not be the right answer this is based on my opinion
It is in the Southwest direction.