Effective talk is when you talk and act in a was that makes people think you are mean, rude, bossy, funny, cute, nice etc.
components is when a <span>part or element is part of a larger whole, especially a part of a machine or vehicle.
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i found the second one on google!
In the story a Knight's Tale by Geoffrey Chaucer Arcite is a Knight who imprisoned and falls in love with a beautiful woman named Emily. After being banished and never being able to see Emily again Arcite disguises himself as one of her servants and quickly becomes a part of Emily's household so he can be close to her once again. This is how Arcite was resourceful.
You should have a serious conversation to him/her. You have to tell them it's not right and it could affect either her/him or people who read her/his blog