Think of one person you have blamed for limiting, offending, or hurting you. Was the person 100% at fault, or was there also som
ething for which you were responsible? Did this situation lead you to a point where you could either respond negatively or positively? Did you make a choice to take the high road or the low road?
Take a moment, and write down:
1. What do you think most people would have done?
2. What did you do?
3. Is there something you could have done differently?
4. What positive thing did you learn from the experience?
it was partially my fault because if i had waited longer to see his true colors i wouldn't have went into the relationship in the first place but it is partially his fault because he could have chosen weather to hurt me or not and he chose to hurt me.
I think people would have completely blamed the person that hurt them
