I guess that what is suggested about Lady of Shalott's love towards Sir Lancelot is that her love is impossible. She was cursed not to look at the city below her, yet she did and fell in love with Sir Lancelot, although she knew she could never be with him because of the curse. Her love is thus impossible, and even before she got to meet the love of her life, she died because their romance was doomed to fail even before it began.
The noun "herself" is a intensive pronoun. Since you can take out the pronoun and the sentence still makes sense that means its intensive. Hope that helps!
A ~ Dialogue.
<span>Ex, The fault in our starts had most dialogue pertaining to the characters which helped John Green the writer tell their story, it flowed a lot smoother then reading a silent story. </span>