I'm pretty positive, The relationship between the owner and the gun is that the owner is a hunter. The owner is a male because he is directly called a "he" in a few lines. It is ironic the Dickinson is comparing herself to a loaded gun because she was in her depressed state and thought herself a killing machine like a gun.
This is one of the most iconic poems by Emily Dickinson.
She -the speaker- compares herself to a "loaded gun" in the hands of her owner. The owner is a man as you can see in this verses:
<em>To foe of </em><em>His</em><em>..,</em>
<em>Though I than </em><em>He</em><em> - may longer live
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<em>He</em><em> longer must - than I -</em>
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This owner or master might well represent God, a Husband or even the speaker's own anger in relation with the gun that may likely symbolize power: the speaker's life and the power that her words may hold.
Honestly it’s simple. If it feels you must do your work, do it. Make time to enjoy other people like family and friends. Most people know when they’ve done wrong or need to let up from working.
Go out, meet people, party. Just do it to a point where you feel productive and these activities reduce negative stress. Nothing more really.