Answer:
late 14c., dictatour, "Roman chief magistrate with absolute authority," from Old French dictator and directly from Latin dictator, agent noun from dictare "say often, prescribe," frequentative of dicere "to say, speak" (from PIE root *deik- "to show," also "pronounce solemnly").
Explanation:
I would interpret it as how people only look at reality, not what's inside or what they can't see.
Jim and Della love each other