The correct answer would be “me encantan los postres porque son dulces,” “dulces” translating to sweet.
This is correct. This is a reflexive verb that you are doing to yourself. This translates to, "Normally I brush the hair". If it was something like "Normalmente me cepillo el pelo de Anna" it would be incorrect because you are doing it to Anna, not yourself.
So for the usted form, you use the 3rd person singular of the present subjunctive instead of the 2nd person singular present indivatice so, 'hable'