The answer is 2 because they are not meaning it in a violent way so it's not 1, there is no sign of disinterest so it's not 4, and it's not talking about acceptance so it can't bring 3. Therefore the answer is 2.
Wow...asking for wayyy too much
I’m going to try to give this to you via comment section because it includes too many words.
(Now, this is something I pulled off the web. You could turn this in, but I don’t recommend that. Just read over this instead of the actual book if you don’t have enough time, and rewrite some of it in your own words, or rewrite it all yourself based on this.)
They are opposing ideas, so yes. A dream is NOT reality and vice versa. Yes the phrase is an oxymoron.
:)