Thomas dale was the leader after john smith
simply, just ask questions (how their day is going, the weather, anything you can think of), compliment them, don't be afraid to let it keep quiet, it'll come to you in time :)
When u limit individual rights. It upsets people because it changes their way of life, and the social behavior switches from passive to aggressive,leading to riots,anarchy, boycotts etc.(Just social unrest in general)
