The question is asking to state how does the author of A modern Love Letter create surprise,so I think , El Saadawi, challenge the preconceptions of what love is and how it is seen in the modern setting.
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Converting is more powerful than destroying, because converting is the action of taking something and altering it in order to better it or use it in a different way. Destroying on the other hand is simply putting an end to something and causing it to cease to exist; instead of attempting to change and repair it.