"First", you take out some gram crackers. "Next", you spread some peanut butter on top. "finally", you can add a dash of cinnamon.
you can go a little bit more into detail on yours and make it longer, but this is just a little example.
The information that would be most helpful in determining the conflict between the speaker and his coy mistress is that Rubies were valued in Asia as amulets thought to preserve virginity.
This is helpful, because it hints at the later concept of the poem of the speaker desiring to have intercourse with his "coy" beloved, while the other statements are merely facts that are unrelated to the overall themes of the poem.
I'm assuming the answer is 'communication' - verbal and nonverbal communication.
The literary device of irony.
Irony is the expression of one's meaning by using language that normally signifies the opposite, typically for humorous or emphatic effect. This idea of expressing the opposite of what is actually being said/wrote is present on the title: in this case, by the use of the word "Kind".
The effect it has on the reader's interpretation is then to read the poem in a way that recognizes the irony on it.