The examples has to do with his people trying to raise their own point of view when a misundertanding raised to the point of altering their unity. Tutu was right to be fair to both sides in order to be impartial and to raise only onw point of view to remain united
Rites of passage are important occasions of somebody's life. For example, puberty, marriage, having children and death.
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“The Bass, the River, and Shelia Mant”
14 year-old boy asks Sheila out. They go to the cinema by boat. The boy covers the fishing rod and fails to catch a big bass. Then he is upset.
"Oranges"
12 year-old boy goes out on a date with a girl for the first time. They go to the drugstore on foot. He has an orange in his pocket. She picks a chocolate. They take each other's hands. He peels the orange and she opens the chocolate.