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Family secrets shouldn't be told outside of the family because whoever told ypu that secret trusted you alot to keep the secret and just as you gained there trust you can lose it.
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Jonas feels conflicted about disobeying the rules he has been taught. At school, the other Twelves are all talking about their new Assignments. Fiona tells Jonas there is a lot she didn't know about the House of the Old, like how they use a discipline wand on the Old just as they do on children.