On January 6, 1851, at his State of the State address to the California Senate, 1st Governor Peter Burnett said: "That a war of extermination will continue to be waged between the races until the Indian race becomes extinct must be expected. While we cannot anticipate this result but with painful regret, the inevitable destiny of the race is beyond the power or wisdom of man to avert."
The basic meaning of willing is, "an expression of desire and consent."
Here, the words, "As I see it we can have no new deal until" convey Eleanor Roosevelt's appeal for cooperation and participation to women and other groups.
She means that we cannot move forward without the cooperation of intelligent, hard-working and determined women who decide to take part in matters of the country.