We can not see any person for who they are. We can only see similarities between us. Every person has hidden feelings, extraordinary thoughts, and meaningful tallents. We judge people by what we see ( similarities or differences between us ) We can not put ourselves in anyone's shoes. We can not see them as they see them because we have not ever seen anything with their eyes. We all have a different story to tell even if we saw the same play, fight etc. We judge ourselves and compare ourselves to other people. We make assumptions and judge even without realizing it.
The bravest is someone who decides not to follow along with behavior of a group because they may look down on you and threaten you and do all sort of things but being brave and courageous keeps you going.