Okonkwo complains to Obierika that his sons are not manly enough and says that he would be happier if Ezinma were a boy because she has “the right spirit.” He and Obierika then argue over whether it was right of Okonkwo to partake in Ikemefuna's death.
Answer: Okonkwo and Obierka are best friends, but their personalities don't exactly match. Obierika is the kind of person who refrains from using violence, open for change, thinks before they act. On the other hand, Okonkwo doesnt think before he acts, he resorts to violence when things dont go his way, and he able to cope with new cultural changes.
Obierika ctitizized Okonkwo because Obierika was against the fact okonkwo took part in Ikemefunas death. Obierika stated his actions were something the Earth wouldn't please.
