Hi, while I cannot answer all of your questions since my Greek Mythology is kind of rusty and I do not know which version of some stories you were told, I will answer the ones that I do know. Skipping the first question, I would describe Odysseus as cunning, bold, courageous, brave, and smart. Odysseus' wife is Penelope, answering both of your questions concerning this topic. Helen's parents are Leda and Zeus. The King of Sparta chooses Menelaus as Helen's husband. Paris interferes with Menelaus' and Helen's marriage. Aphrodite offers Paris the most beautiful woman in the world, the woman being Helen. Menelaus responds to Helen's and Paris' affair by declaring war against Troy.
