Question

Riley is upset because her friend, Brendan, owes her $30. Brendan claims he does not have any money, but Riley saw him buying new expensive clothes last week. Write one closed conversation between Riley and Brendan. Write one open conversation between Riley and Brendan.

Answer 1

R (with a calm and careful voice): Hey, not trying to be annoying or pushy, but, uh, are you, uh, planning to, uh, give me back, my 30 bucks?
B: I told you, I don't have the money just yet!
R: when were you planning on returning the money?
B: Ug! (clearly annoyed). I'll give it back sometime next week! I'm going through a rough time, I wish you would understand that! I regret borrowing the money from you!
R: Fine.
B: good.
R: What were you doing buying those Jordans with huh?!
B: Huh??? How did-
R: I saw you at the mall yesterday. You never needed the money, you just guilt me into giving you the money. 
B: i can't handle this anymore! I'm leaving

Answer 2

Closed conversation:

Riley: Brendan, have you got my money?

Brendan: I don't.

Riley: When are you going to give it back?

Brendan: I don't know.

Riley: You know that I need it.

Brendan: I don't have it!

Riley: But you were shopping last week!

Brendan: I said I don't have it!

Open conversation:

Riley: Brendan, when are you going to be able to give me my money back?

Brendan: I'm sorry. It's just that I don't have it yet.

Riley: Weren't you shopping last week?

Brendan: I really don't have it.

Riley: But I do need it soon. We need to find a solution. How much can you pay me back now?

Brendan: I could give you ten tomorrow.

Riley: Give me ten tomorrow, and ten each week after. And after three weeks, we will be ok. Does that sound like a plan?

Brendan: Yes, I can do that. Thank you.

Explanation:

The open conversation is more effective because the statements lead to a successful resolution. They allow both people to express their opinions in a more complete and respectful way. It also allows them to engage in creative thinking and dialogue.