I can't answer that because I didn't watched the video or read the text. But if I were you I would re-read and re-watch it. At least until I got ideas and for future advice take notes as you watch and read things the notes will also help you one up with ideas.
Answer: with time.
Explanation: Just a guess; there really isn't enough information pertaining to how to answer the question :)
Answer and Explanation:
In Amy Tan's short story "Rules of the Game", the conflict is mainly external, man vs. man or, more specifically, daughter vs. mother. Waverly and her mother seem incapable of understanding each other's feelings and demonstrations of such feelings. That is made very clear toward the end of the story, when the mother proudly introduces Waverly to every one, even strangers, on the street. Waverly is a sort of child prodigy, a chess genius, and her mother can't help but display her. Waverly, however, does not enjoy being exhibited, reacting in a way that is disrespectful and offensive, in her mother's opinion.