Stealth requires great agility. One must be very cautious about how one approaches some creature that one should really avert. However, irresolution is for the timid. When a course has been decided upon, do it. Don't think about it. The time to be tremulous is when you have finished with the chore of avoidance.
This sounds like more of a personal question to be answer - sorry
So they could get married asap instead of juliet and romeo having the slightest chance to be wed
