Answer: passive voice
there is no doer of the action and hope it is correct
Ideas:
1. How do your think your parent's way of parenting shaped your identity? (Do you think it affects you currently?)
2. As you learn more about your ethnicity, does it change how you perceive yourself?
3. What parts of yourself have stayed the same throughout your life? (Examples: Behaviors, Morals, ways of expressing yourself)
A transitive verb has a direct object and usually, the subject is doing the action towards that object. The subject performs the action and the object receives the actions. So I believe D is the answer.
I'd assume they are referring to the metaphor of "you" being a "gray cat" or "quiet street."