A crush is someone you really like and you can't explain why. I could be a boy, a girl, neither, both, or other it doesn't matter. I have one. I have known this guy for a year. He has always treated me nicely. He has always treated me like I was one of his friends. Even in the locker room we would talk about literally nothing. Unfortunately he isn't gay or at least hasn't came out. I really like him and I hope that you and the other person work out better than I did. Have a nice day :)