Answer: i think you should go along with your passion like what im doing but you can also have more than one passion like how i wanna be a vet but i also wanna be a actress you can pick more than one passion for back-ups if your one passion is put on a hold or somethinng.
Ignore that crazy chick. Go with the one you love. If you really want your ex then go for it. If you love your ex then stay with her. Be smart about how you handle this. What I would to is stay with the girl I have now.