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so I know you'll always hear this, but just think, if everyone keeps saying the same thing, just think about why. anyways, I'd say to try to be open-minded, what I mean is take a second to step outside your perspective and look at things from a different angle. you're always going to judge from your angle, it's natural, but try to see things differently. if someone keeps saying the same thing (ex, stop having anger issues) and you always reply, I didn't have anger issues, well, maybe you do, especially if they always say it, or if you find yourself in the SAME situation over and over again. that means you need to change something. it's okay to be wrong, that doesn't make you a bad person, you're a bad person when you get stuck in your perspective and aren't open to change. yes, there's a difference between constructive criticism, and just full on judging someone. If I say you have anger issues, that's not to hurt you, that's to get you to notice it, and yes, even if I said it in a mean way, it's still up to you to try to change.
Explanation:
something I always say is "life is just a moment filled with moments, and all moments come to an end. so when you think you're in a situation that you'll never get out of, just remember it's a moment that will come to an end, and it's up to you to decide how" I told this to my little cousin who was being a man h.o.e and didn't know how to get out of that, he kept getting with toxic girls.
