Love is that one thing that you can't really get enough of but at the same time you can also feel like it's too much. Usually when people think of love they think of a good marriage, but I think of it as basically anything. For example, you can love your job, school, friends, animals, and the list goes on. The most basic thing to loving something/someone is putting effort into whatever it is because if you put effort into it, I can garuntee you that you will be much happier with the outcome. So, the next time you want to love someone/something, make sure to put forth the effort into it.
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He wrote secular poems as well as erotic and love poems. He is particularly famous for his mastery of metaphysical conceits.
In other words, he was known for writing relatable puns and spicy romance poetry =w=
I'm not 100 percent sure, but I'm pretty sure it's the first one about initially not having an interest in marriage