Christ is the Body and He is Love and both can only exist in community. It is in community that we can reciprocate what we have receive from Him. It's only when you reach out to community that your gifts can be used fro the kingdom. Being a giver, is having an attitude to give something that you have without asking for return. Having a gift is a blessing because it is special that you been entrusted to it. The best thing to take care of it is to share to somebody.
And a healthy community for us: Those with strong social connection, but poor health habits (eating, exercise,etc.) are just as healthy as those with good health habits but weak social connections.
So, giver is important to live in a community of love to embrace one's imperfections and let imperfections be one's strength to a way to soar.
In india, you’re only allowed to marry people from the same level as you. what i mean by this is they have different skin colors, and the lighter the color the higher the level. Let’s say you fall in love with someone from a lower level. You wouldn’t be able to marry them, you would have to marry the arranged marriage