its not something you become. its something you figure out. youre born that way. i was lesbian when i was 8 yrs old but i was playing with barbies and not knowing what sexuallity is until i did find out what it was and then i thought i was bi and with my experinces in life i found out im lesbian. you dont just become it you figure it out and some people are confused for a very long time. I didnt even say i was BI for 3 yrs. but whatever you end up coming out as youre completly valid and dont let anyone tell u otherwise <3
