That would be Social Engineering.
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Self directing approach is the individual who takes the "god helps those who help themselves". I<span>ndividual who perceives him or herself and responsible for outcome, although god or nature has provided the resources the individual needs to be successful is also the god help those who help themselves first.</span>
Ursula's therapist is asking her to limit a destructive game in which she practices in their relationship is the naming game or naming the game. It is a game where it focuses on trying to manipulate another in a way of making them vulnerable in order to get what the person wants. It could be seen above as Ursula tries to manipulate her partner by telling them to know what she wants since they love her or to prove that they love her.
