What do you mean by that ?
1: José always says he's shy, but he doesn't stop flirting with the girls at work
2: My wife and I have been married for ten years, but our love is as intense as ever.
3: Carlos has been fighting with his girlfriend every day for five months and still talks about her as if she were the only woman on the planet.
4.Daniel always complains that his studies overwhelm him and for months his mother has told him that he has to relax.
5. My parents repeat every day that they will soon move to a smaller house that they have seen in another town.
With the examples given, we do not know what "it" and "them" is that the speaker is referring to. Without stating what "it" is, the meaning of the sentence is unclear.
Hope this helps!!
What's the question? I am Mexican American and I don't understand what you're trying to ask.