I think the dictionary defineition would be destructive by both sides.
This is an excerpt from the Diary of Anne Frank.
Explanation:
- Anne Frank's frustrations come from her perception of others and their lack of foresight.
- Anne does not have a friend and names her diary "Kitty" so that she can feel like she is sharing her concerns with her best friend.
- Anne does not feel as if she "fits in" with her own family, particularly her mother and sister, Margot. In her diary, she complains that she feels herself "drifting further away" from them. Her father had more concern for her.
