do you know for sure they are h0mophobic? ive come out to my parents but theyre not h0mophobic so i dont know if my opinion counts but i say just do it
and if they get upset at you, tell them that if they cared they would accept you.
leave them for a while to process it and see what they say in another day or two.
hope that helps
1 Greek or Roman 2 midevil times 3 Egypt
Colors: Stripped by Halsey is a really good one
And anything in the Manic album is really good, I love all her music tbh.