To rephrase 'You are not telling me what is going on!' in a neutral non-blaming way we could say for example: "I like to do things independently of what other people think I should do" With this, you're stating that you don't like being told what to do but don't assign any blame.
I can't tell if you're arguing or y'all just being friends to be honest you're both like started liking me as soon as I got on here so that's why I picked you both
thats wierd but wouldnt they die ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????