Answer: its like a fist at first with you thumb on the side going in a circle around your chest<-- is the sorry part. Then you have your pointer fingers (two hands btw) pointing up with your palm facing towards you and you proceed to move your hand up and even curve it toward yourself in the end (while going up)<---I dont understand. ASL
Going on the assumption that it's about costs greater than benefits or something similar: People will do less of an activity when the costs outweigh the benefits (or the cons outweigh the pros) because it simply isn't worth doing; it causes them more harm than good