The poem is talking about thinking about the bad things that have happened to you and asking why we hold on to them.
An Active voice means that a sentence has a subject that acts upon its verb. Passive voice means that a subject is a recipient of a verb's action. You may have learned that the passive voice is weak and incorrect, but it isn't that simple. When used correctly and in moderation, the passive voice is fine.
Explanation:
It's important for readers to understand how is because, when you write a story, or a school report, if you don't make some sort of suspense, people are going to get bored, or lost. Readers also should know why writers create suspense because, it's always a good idea sometimes, to stop yourself, and say, "Why did this happen"? Asking why helps you to understand, and visualize what's going on in the peice of writing.
That's all I got. Hope this helped!!
Comfortable. that’s what i think makes the most sense.