Entirely different ideals, views, thoughts.
Answer:
the children are afraid of her cause her looks and they hate her cause she planted those marigolds which make their neighboor hood look less ugly :)
Explanation:
You should focus on the main ideal
Answer: Only "She cannot do the work herself" is clearly intensive.
All the others are reflexive. The pronoun serves as a direct object that also refers to (reflects back on) the subject.
Explanation: A possible example for discussion:
The boys bought themselves lunch.
In this sentence, <em>themselves </em>is the indirect object (reflecting the subject) and it serves to mean that the boys bought their own lunch, So reflexive "as-is." If the word is moved to another position in the sentence, it could be intensive.
The boys themselves bought lunch. (Appositive) or The boys bought lunch themselves. In these cases, <em>themselves</em> would be intensive. The meaning changes. Maybe the boys bought lunch for others too. (Surprise! They did it themselves for other people.)