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The quote refers to Sal because from the very beginning of her story, she expects Phoebe to understand her sufferings. Sal uses the similar experiences she has with Phoebe to express her own sadness. In a way her memories are a confession that Sal struggles to forgive her mother. The way she focuses on solving the mysteries of her mother's life shows Sal could not address Phoebe's experiences.
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to reveal the narrators confusion
If your silent things about things that matter I could affect other people